Guest Post | Define your Social Media Celebrity Voice

Guest Post | Define your Social Media Celebrity Voice

The following is a guest post from Miriam Brosseau. Miriam and I recently spoke at a Taglit-Birthright Marketing Forum social media Panel. I really admired how she answered the question “what voice do you use on social media?” so i asked her to put it in a guest post. Enjoy the examples she gives and you can follow Miriam on Twitter or check out her blog. 

Who’s Your (Social Media) Daddy? Finding Your Voice in a Celebrity Hybrid

Defining your unique social media voice gives you a huge advantage in this attention economy. But it ain’t always easy to nail down just what that means. In defining our voices, we end up speaking in abstractions that don’t necessarily guide our efforts, and don’t give our friends, fans, and followers a good sense of who we are and what we’re trying to say. The sad truth of the matter is that a lot of our Facebook posts (for instance) end up sounding something like, “Come to this event! It’s going to be awesome!”

Oy. C’mon, people, we can do better! And our friends, fans, and followers expect – and deserve – better.

Let’s take a cue from the entertainment industry on this one; they know a few things about defining voice.

Here’s a quick story for ya –

The writers of the movie Aliens were almost done with the script and were beginning to pitch it to production studios. They just needed a powerful, interesting way to describe it so that the always-busy, always-overburdened producers would even open the script. So what did they do? They described the movie in three simple words: “JAWS in space.”

Genius, right? The writers took an existing, familiar (and, it just so happens, wildly successful) film premise (big, angry, vindictive, seemingly unstoppable creature) and put it in a new context (dark, scary space). Suddenly as a producer I understand the premise, and am ready to read past the first page of the script.

Here’s another example –

When a new band is looking to get the attention of a record label, they need a lot of things – already rabid fans, great press, maybe a few songs… But they also need a way to describe their sound to grab the label’s attention in the first place and get them to listen to the music in the first place. One of the most effective and fun ways to do this is to refer to yourself as the offspring or meeting of two other artists or bands. A now-defunct band called Graceful Abyss described itself as “Grace Slick meets Rammstein.” A children’s artist described himself as “Cookie Monster meets Johnny Cash.” A punk/metal band, Sutured Psyche, would describe itself as “Tool and The Dead Kennedys making out under the bleachers.” Got an idea what these groups might sound like?

As Joanna Quargnali-Linsley of Misery Loves Co. (who has been described as “part Xena, part Abby Cadaby”) says, “The point is to identify two contrasting influences and create a frame of reference for the listener…to paint a picture that the listener would want to hear.”

How powerful would it be if we could do the same with our social media voices? To really define and encapsulate our perspective in a punchy one-liner that leaves folks wanting more?

The fabulous Jenny Lawson, also known as “The Bloggess,” does this beautifully. The banner image of her blog announces that she is “like Mother Theresa, only better.” Her taboo tagline does double duty, both putting the familiar in a new context to give us a sense of what she’s all about, and enticing us to delve further into her satirical, uncensored world.


Your challenge, should you accept it, is to do just that – define your celebrity hybrid! Again, you can either a) cast yourself as a familiar voice in a new context, or b) declare yourself the unholy progeny of two unsuspecting celebrities. (Pro tip: it’s easier, and a lot more fun, to try this exercise with a few (trusted) friends; they may have better insight into your best combination, and be more willing to label you and have fun with it. Take them out for drinks and give it a shot.)

Having trouble thinking of something? Here are a few guiding questions to help you out:

  • Who do people compare you to?

  • Who do you admire?

  • Or, flip it around: what qualities are you trying to embody, and who already represents that?

 Remember: your celebrity hybrid need not be something you announce publicly! Maybe it’s just your own guide. Knowing that – and herein lies the rub – think about how this might actually play out. If you declare your social media voice to be, as my colleague did, “Tina Fey meets Nancy Pelosi,” what does that mean for how you express yourself online?

Think about:

  • Vocabulary

  • Use of punctuation (really!!!)

  • Images – still and video

  • Attitude

  • Use of references – pop culture, quotes, etc.

  • Other elements of aesthetics and style

The important bit is to be real and have fun with it. Give it a try (and let me know if you find your long-lost parents)!




Miriam Brosseau  is rock star, writer, Jewish communal professional (to see the places I’ve worked, check out my online resume). She writes a lot about Jewish life and social media. So, yeah, expect that.

Her band is

Stereo Sinai, and she does a lot of her own solo work, all of which you can check out on this page.

Want to get in touch?  Find Miriam on the Twitter!

  • This is such a useful post! The folks at Big Duck often recommend you answer these questions:

    If you were a celebrity, who would you be?
    If you were a color, what color would you be?
    If you were a car, what car would you be?

    Somehow stepping a couple degrees out of yourself can be very helpful for reflecting on yourself! It’s true both personally, and when you’re representing an organization, which may require more intentionality and character embodiment!

    This is hard for me, but I’ll give it a whirl. I think I’d be part Dennis Prager (Nine Questions People Ask About Judaism — accessible, non judgmental, simple and straightforward explanations), part Clay Shirky (Here Comes Everybody — storytelling to illustrate, drawing out the bigger implications of the tactical lessons, some humor and casual tone while being deep, intellectual and profound), and part Stephen R. Covey (7 Habits of Effective People — part therapist, part coach).

    Funny none of them are celebrities in the Hollywood sense, and I did really find myself backing into Prager and Covey to illustrate the characteristics. Shirky less so. I drive a navy Audi wagon, which I think is pretty on-target for my social media voice too. Practical (wagon, all wheel drive), powerful, and a color just muted enough to not be showing off. 🙂 What’s yours?

    • I’d like to say my voice is a mixture of Ross and Chandler from Friends. Ross tries really hard to exhibit his smarts on topics that no one else knows about like Architecture or Unagi. Chandler is constantly making funny observations, which not all find funny or relevant.

Subscribe to our mailing list

* indicates required